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Ok....Ive not posted for a while but these are my problems....

Firstly, Ok so im seeing this guy,call him boy A(seeing meaning we can see other people etc.) anyway, i do have feelings for him, yet they arent as strong as the feelings i have for this other guy call him boy B, who is one of my best guy friends......if that makes sence. I think im in love with boy B and i dont think im in love with the guy im seeing. We always meet on our own and stuff, flirt all the time, talk all the time, share secrets and stuff. I really like him but im not too keen on seeing two people at once, and we all hang around together so it would be awkward. I really dunno what to do and im so confused cuz i dont wanna hurt boy A, but i cant help how i feel, only two of my friends know but they only think i fancy him.....any advice on that? sorry its so long.

Anyways problem two, not really about me but about boy B... i dont know whether he is attention seeking or really self consious....cuz he always slags himself off, and says why would you care about me and stuff...its really anoying cause i dunno what to say that will make him feel better. Hes not the kinda person who talks about his feelings openly if you know what i mean.....Any help would be great thanks!!!! Sorry if its long or doesnt make just worried.

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Well about your first problem, the best thing you could probably do is be honest. Just tell them both how you feel, tell "Boy A" that you would like to keep your relationship with him platonic because you think you are better just as friends. As for your best friend let him know that you are interested, make a point to hang out with him alone so he notices how you feel more and things like that. No point in dating someone you don't like though.


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