get a job at a radio station and work your way up
do you know anything about music? are you musically literate? do you play any instruments? these things matter. you need a really good ear to be a producer. you can't just turn a few knobs or slide a few switches and expect music to come out without knowing how to make some from scratch yourself.
lastly, i hope you have friends in the right places. networking is super important when it comes to getting anywhere. Don't expect to be hugely famous. For every one mega-producer who hits it big (P.Diddy, Pharrell Williams, Daniel Lanois, Nigel Godrich, Steve Albini, Phil Spector, Butch Vig, etc.), there are many who never even see their names in the liner notes.
Other than that, good luck.
Hey, you did'nt say if your mother disapproved of black people. You just said she doesn't like earrings. Well, earrings can be removed. Covering up black skin, however is another matter. People havether negative sterotypes about certain kinds of people because there'll always be some dumbass to perpetuate them. But if your guy can put a good face forward, that impression can do a lot to change someone's mind. Little things like having really good table manners, good speech (with proper grammar, no slang and definitely no cursing) and proper dress go a really long way. If you're bold, and he's willing to put in the effort, you two can make an impressive debut with your mother.
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