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why is it whenever I have a female friend, i can kiss them, hug, them, touch them...but whenever i ask them to be my girlfriend after 2years they all turn me down and never talk to me again?

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Good question. Try cornering them and talking to them?
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It might be hard for people to answer this one, because you're not giving a lot of info here.

Maybe you could elaborate on a situation, explain what happened with one particular person. We don't know what's going on in their heads, and I doubt any of us have the means to find out, so if you could give us more info, maybe we could make an educated guess.

And coolest, cornering people and asking whats going on isn't the best method to find out information. Not only would it be quite uncomfortable, you could turn them away even more.

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Well, you just fixed it in their heads that you're friends and maybe they can never see you as a boyfriend. Also, sadly, oftentimes nice guys finish last.
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Sometimes when you just hug, kiss, touch girls as friends, and then suddenly ask them out, they get confused because they thought they were just having a little fun and not serious interest. I suggest if you sincerely like a girl, save the kissing and touching for when you are officially together, it just avoids the confusion.
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