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Jenni_05
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year and he had just told me that he wanted to go on a break He wants to figure out what he wants and wanted to make sure that he is making the right decision He does'nt want to make the wrong choice.... say if we stay together and we get married down the the track and it does'nt work out and ends up in divorce in which he does not want to happen.

Which i totally understand where he is coming from and there just alot of issues to work through and so i am totally cool with having a break...... welll i am but it just really hurts and its hard to deal with as i love him so much and can't stand the thought of losing him.


I just thought i'd come on here for a little advice (if there is any) and to vent abit as i don't have many ppl to talk to.

I hope that the Message makes sense..... TA

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EricaL828
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Hey! I understand how all that could make you feel very bad. It's good that you understand his need to take a break. As far as what you did with someone else, it's good that you learned your lesson. Also, hopefully you have taken full responsibility for it and not placed any blame on your bf. It is important that you express how and why you did what you did to him. (honestly) I also know what it's like to do something you don't want to do, but part of you doesn't listen. The best thing with that is to LISTEN! It is really hard sometimes, but in the future remember how you felt after this happend. Things will work out for the best, I promise. Many people take breaks and they are the only way sometimes to proceed forward in a relationship. I would recommend being patient with your boyfriend and waiting things out. My prayers are with you.
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Jenni_05
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sorry i meant the whole topic....is it possible to delete the whole topic?

Can you please delete the whole topic PLEASE?!

sorry for the confusion

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