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mafrala
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ok, i recently broke up with my bf of 9 months. i broke up with him b-cuz he ignored me all the time for my so called best friend! he was with her all the time and would just leave me for her. well i now i have a new bf and we've been goin out about 3 weeks. she's doin the same thing to him. she always some how finds away to get them to pay more attention to her than me! i ask her about it, and ask her to quit flirting with my boyfriend, but she just gets mad and says she's not flirting, theyre just good friends. Am i over-protective and jealous? what can i do to stop this relationship from taking the same turn as before!
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Heather
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How about setting sexual energy aside?

The real issue seems to be that she's basically co-opting your relationships.

Now, if these guys were her friends before you went out with them, then it's really her right to keep her friendships. But if not, it might be worth simply telling her you'd like her not to be so big a part of your other relationships.

Is she dating herself right now? If not, it may just be that she's envious or afraid of losing you, and not expressing or understanding that very well.

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mafrala
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she was dating my bf's best friend, but he broke up with her. with both of these boyfriends, they werent good friends with her until after i started dating them. but the first bf she did this with, she called him all the time and went riding round with him. my new bf, she goes over to his house and writes him notes. i know he wouldnt cheat on me, but i just feel really left out and she just gets on my nerves!
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