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So here is the ex and i have been broken up for like 6 months...we were together for like 14 or so months. Basically the reason we ended it was for school, we were going to be at two different colleges..and not wanting to get in the way of the College expierence. Its been really hard....we are still best friends, she was gone all this summer to take class in Chicago,we still had the time to call on the phone all the time. She came home for a night before she left for her real school....i helped her was as if we were together again, we both felt it again...things happened that night..once we finished we talked about getting back together, but decided we should see what it is like without eachother first. We still talk a bunch...just never about our feelings.....she sends miss signals all the time..In her IM profile she has Lyrics from our song...the part that made it our song....She was home this weekend....she stayed at my house....we slept in my bed together and things once again happened...but ther was no talk of getting back together.
What the hell do i do.......its not like i can just walk away and cut her out of my life, she is my best friend......but maybe i should so i can move on......sorry this was so long, if anyone has any advise or has gone through this yourself please tell me what you think

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Well it sounds like you need to talk to her. You two need to tell each other how you feel about each other, and then talk about rather you two are going to get back together.Communication is the key.I have been best-friends with an ex of mine, and being best-friends with them makes it harder to get over them.
You just have to be with friends, and stay busy.Try to keep your mind off her.Its hard to I know.I hope everything works out!


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She just doesn't want to worry about missing you or not knowing what to do if she met another guy while she is away. I think you should really talk to you and make her give you a true answer about getting back together or you should try to meet new people. I know exactly how you feel I have been through the exact same thing. I ended up meeting a new guy and I am happier than I have ever been. I am not saying this will work for you because everybody is different maybe you should try to talk to her first. If you have anymore questions [post them here, don't send me an email. You see, this is now the second time I have posted my email address in blatant violation of the Guidelines I just agreed to this morning. Don't do what I did.]

[This message has been edited by BruinDan (edited 10-19-2003).]

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