I searched around a little bit and I didn't find anything but if there is another thread, please point me in that direction. My boyfriend and I were disscussing vibrators a little while ago and I mentioned I wouldn't mind having one "for those times when he wasn't around" and he seemed all offended and intimidated. He's scared that it'll replace him. I tried and tried to explain it to him ,but he doesn't understand that a girl doesn't just get turned on when her boyfriend is in the room. Does anyone else know of anyone with similar fears/feelings? Or does anyone have any advice as to how I can clear my honey's fears up? Thanks!
Amber, my guy was the same way. Last year, he got me a sex toy. It caught me off guard because I had been hinting that I wanted tickets to go see Beck, and lemme tell ya, that was no pair of Beck tickets. But it rang his bells, I guess, and it's nice that he's not intimidated by such things, although I wished he'd have listened to me when i was making my demands.
My boyfriend felt the same way about having a vibrator, but he realized simply that he is not always around, and that we do have those times that we need something extra. Also another thing is he likes to take control, by using it on me.
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