Heh, that's a response i've got pretty used to
Y'see, socialisng isn't my strong point. Meeting someone new at a club, and going home with them that night isn't my thing.
I just can't do that, I have to get to know someone before I date them, engage in intercorse, even fool around with them.
Because of this i've become real good friends with almost every girl i've fancied, which has led to the eventual "I just want to be friends".
But that's not my problem, my problem lies with my best friend of 3 years. I've got pretty damn close to her, so close infact that she has told me some incredibly personal stuff.
Recently we've been getting pretty flirty, just mucking around. Now, I know she likes me and she knows I like her (thank you drunken phone calls! )...
...but here's the problem. Everytime we get closer, she shys away. I know she's had sex before, and I know she finds me physically attractive...but she is very hesitant about taking our relationship further and last night the "I just want to be friends" line came up which confused the hell out of me, and her girlfriends!
I really like her and want to be with her, but I also wouldn't put a relationship before our friendship.
I haven't spoken to her since, her phones been off the hook/engaged for hours!
My mates have all told me that she's just a "cock-tease" and I should forget about it...but I really care about her, what should I say the convey how I feel without giving her the wrong impression?