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holla atcha gurl
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Okay, it's kinda long, but here it goes.

Me and this guy messed around with each other about 6 years ago (we had sex twice in one month). He had a girlfriend at the time. I went ahead and left him alone because I didn't want to get my feelings hurt. So since then he has gotten back together with his son's mother (not the girlfriend from above) and they have another baby on the way. We have been fooling around for almost 8 months now. He's always over my house, always calling me. On her birthday, he spent the day with me. And then on my birthday, he spent the day with me. I love him, and I hope he feels the same way. Everytime his girlfriend comes up, he says he can't leave her because he's so used to her, plus his new addition to the family will be here next month. Now should I attempt to leave him alone ( but remember my feelings are involved now) or keep trying to make him change his mind about me?

Please let me know A.S.A.P.

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Leave this one alone. It really doesn't sound like he knows what he wants and he doesn't seem to have any qualms about hurting you or anyone else while he tries to figure it out.

You and the other two women involved deserve to be treated with more honesty and respect than this.

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I agree he sounds like he wants it all. And if hes cheating on the girl hes with now if he leaves her for you whos to say he won't do the same with you and he may even have other women than just you and the other girl. Think this one through and don't let him hurt you.
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A wiser man than me said, "If he'll do it with you, he'll do it TO you"

We are starstuff, we are the universe made manifest, trying to figure itself out

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