I very recently lost my virginity to my BF. I thought i loved him with all my heart....but the next day, I, instead of feeling that much more connected to him, became more distant. Now I dont know what to do...because i still love him, but i just found that how i felt after the fact was a slap in the face. I have had feelings of dumping him.....but then when i think about doing that, I start to cry. Another thing taht doesnt help is the fact that hes in college 300miles away which means that i cant see him very often...which is, i think, one of the reasons i feel this way. If anyone has gone through this...knows anything that can help....i would really appreciate it
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The title of your thread says it all. What can help? Probably only time. You may choose to break up or not, only you can make that decission. Take heart, yes sex always changes things, but not always for the worse. The only consistant changes is that it always makes things more complicated.
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