me and my BF have been together since march...i reallly like him and i thought he really liked me, but recently he hasnt been returning my phone calls, wen he DOES call he tells me hes going to come over and he NEVER shows up..and he doesnt even call to tell me hes not comming. the other day he made me reallly mad becuz he told me we were going out cuz his firends bailed on him...we were supposed to go on a DATE...just the 2 of us! well n e ways...i got mad and i said okay watever bai..and i hung up. so then i went running, i tryed calling back and he went sumwhere. we didnt talk for like 3 days and i called him up the 3rd day and he told me that irritated him (that was yesterday) well he called me lsat night and today...and he was supposed to come over today. im really starting to think if i need him or not. i mean i kno i dont need this trouble bcuz all he makes me do is cry. i cry so much bcuz he hurts me. i dunno y he likes to b so mean. i wanna dump him but i have this fear of not having sumone there...like a BF. i want one and i have this feeling of im afraid of being alone...i really need help on this..its really upseting me. wen i DO get upset which is like everyday i get an axiety attack..and i hate it. i need sum advice here. please.
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Okay, I'm no expert on this, so feel free to consider my advice useless, but... I think you ought to ask him why he's doing this. If this isn't possible or if his answer is a cold stare or a cruel comment or something, then... maybe it's time to go alone for a while. Besides, you're not really alone, there's always friends, no? Again, I'm no expert, so it's just my hmble opinion.
Posts: 73 | From: dallas, texas, usa | Registered: Jul 2002
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The thousand dollar question...Do you want to be in a relationship with someone who upsets you all the time?
From what you said, it seems like this guy is treating you unfairly. Do what Shenzie said and just ask him straight out. If he isn't willing to sort things out, he doesn't care about you.
I'm sorry that you've come to depend so much on someone who treats you badly. You need to move on though, go out with your friends, have a good time with the girls, and forget about him...you'll be stronger for it! Good luck!*Badger*
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hun, don't be afraid to be solo for awhile. It's not bad at all and it gives you a chance to meet a guy who won't be like that to you.
But like people before me have said talk to him and see what he says. But keep in mind, if he is rude or anything than just think about cutting off the relationship. Plenty of other guys out there right? That'll treat you how a girl needs to be treated.
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