Lemming! First of all, you're going to have to explain what "pseudonymous alter personalities" is. Second of all you stole my advice! I read it and I'm thinking, "duh, confidence" and errr! But seriously. I don't wear a lot of skimpy clothing, in fact I'd say maybe once every two months I wear something skimpy (but hey, when I do I go all out and shock people ) and I have a lot of guys' attention. It's all about confidence. And happiness. If you're standing in the courtyard (our school has a courtyard where everyone is on the lunch breaks) and making eyes at a guy/girl, act happy and laugh with your friends. It makes you seem more approachable and fun. And second of all, confidence! Sit up straight in your chair (or lean foward into your hand, just don't slouch), don't walk with your head down, and have a purpose. If you look intimidated by the people around you it won't work. If you're not confident and self-assured then you just kind of blend in.
------------------ I'm the good girl that everyone thinks is a bad girl pretending to be a good girl :D
by "pseudonymous alter personalities," I meant, one of my Other personalities, the one who is a constant flirt. her name is Daphne Q. Appleby, and she's sort of become a long-running joke among my friends.
I swear, the whole story and the Daphne Q. Appleby Correspondence Course of Flirting and Unnecessarily Long Names will be up on the Web, shortly. ;]
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