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Alergnon
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I'm crying and I'm really upset over this. I feel so alone. I know I should respond in my other message, but I really need advice if it's possible.

I had unprotected sex and the condom had broke. A week later or a little over a week I woke up to brown discharge in my underwear but it stopped. A week after that or around that, I started to get stomach pains and feeling sick and ill. Now, every time I take my birth control I'm noticing about 20-30mins or less after I take it, I'm in sever pain. I'm really scared. I asked my friend if he thought I was pregnant and he said he thinks I am. Well, so much is going on it's unbelievable. I got a phone call while I was sleeping and I believe it was the doctors office, but when I called back they were closed. I'm scared to call them and have them tell me the doctor needs to see me, because I did a pregnancy test. I believe I am pregnant, I just feel different everywhere, in my stomach and everything.

To make matters worse, I went to my boyfriends place yesterday night (Thursday) and his roommate told me that there is this one girl that always comes over and is in his room. I asked my boyfriend about this and he told me his roommate is joking around and was high. I don't know who to believe at this point.

I'm still crying over this.

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Alergnon
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Also, my boyfriend is snorting drugs. He showed me the thing. If I am pregnant I'm making it clear to him he must not do that while I am pregnant if we're having a child. I have this funny feeling there is stuff he is doing that I don't know about. I'm not doing drugs or crap like that, I've never done drugs, I've tried weed before but I didn't like it and that was 2 years ago. I honestly don't care if he is smoking but drugs is another thing. It just bothers me. So basically I'm dating a potentially liar and a druggy to boot I may be pregnant. The hell! This can't be happening to me. I can't deal with this crap. It's starting to really piss me off.

Can my life get any worse than it already is? Or can this be everything life can throw at me, or is there more?

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September
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Well, why don't we take this one step at a time. Why don't you call your doctor's office again as soon as they open, so you can sort out the pregnancy-question? Once we know for sure what's up with that, we can help you figure out how to deal with that.

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Johanna
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Alergnon
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Yea, I am going to call them Monday.

My night was complete horror. I don't know if I am tired or not, or I'm just really confused. I don't know which one. I haven't ate a meal in 4 days only thing I've been eating is snakes and small things like toast. Because of my stomach being off.

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