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LiiviinLaviidalocaaa
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me and my boyfriend rubbed our genitals together for a bit he was wearing a condom, when we stopped the condom was still full of a lot of precum, he never ejaculated, is there a risk?
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If your partner was wearing a condom for all genital contact, you do not need to be worried about a pregnancy risk.

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LiiviinLaviidalocaaa
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Yes he was wearing a condom, but the bottom of thee condom around where the ring thing is was wet, idk if thats me or him...

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Heather
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You're just as likely to have some fluids as he is. As well, if the condom was lubricated, there's also that.

In terms of risk, in perfect use, condoms are 98% effective. In typical use, that goes down to 85%. But if he never ejaculated, you can figure you're actually talking about the combined rate of BOTH withdrawal and condom use. That's 99.92% effective with perfect use and 95.95% effective with typical use.

So, in any case, your risk would be pretty slim.

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LiiviinLaviidalocaaa
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none of us ejaculated and it was a small amount of liquid at the ring thingy, i think its me, but i'm not sure also we had no intercourse and we did it only for a couple of minuetes

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Heather
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Even if you didn't ejaculate you have your own cervical mucus and vaginal fluids. The vagina also "sweats" with arousal.

Just to be clear, when we talk about intercourse, what's meant by that is ANY entry of one person's genitals to another. ]So, if a penis is inside a vagina -- for a minute or twenty -- it's intercourse.

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LiiviinLaviidalocaaa
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there was NO intercourse they just TOUCHED, rubbing against each other, He didnt enter me at ALL

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Heather
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Then you have even less to worry about, when as it was, you can see from the rates above, there would not have been a viable risk had there been intercourse. [Smile]

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LiiviinLaviidalocaaa
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yay im good

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