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pyrettablaze
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I am a virgin. I have never had sex before in my life. I'm scared though because I was messing around with my boyfriend, and I'm afraid that perhaps some precum came into contact with my vagina. His penis and my vagina have never come into skin to skin contact. We didn't really have dry sex, but I am worried that perhaps some precum soaked through his underwear and this brushed my vagina or something. I gave him a handjob and when he ejaculated it was no where near my vagina at all. It was on his stomach and it was promptly wiped up. We were trying to be so careful. My period is now two days late and I am freaking out. I'm majorly stressed about this. I am more or less the only virgin left out of my friends, and they all tell me I am being insane. I'm just really frightened. Help!
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Heather
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Can I ask how you chart your periods? In other words, how many days are usually in each of your cycles, and how timely are they? A two-day difference is not at all unusual for most women.

Based on what you have posted, I don't see a likely risk in any of this. However, you two were grinding genitals and you were nude, and he only had on underwear and he FULLY ejaculated, and that ejaculate soaked his underpants, that could potentially create some risk, albeit usually a small one.

If you're doing stuff like that, by the way, it sounds like it might also be time for you two to talk about condom use, okay?

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pyrettablaze
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I chart my periods based on a 28 day cycle. I must admit that I have been extremely stressed right now, regarding this and other issues, and I think that might be affecting my period.

We definitely were not grinding genitals. The only time we have done that is with clothes on. The only time he ejaculated was when I stimulated him with my hand, and it was no where near my vagina. I was also wearing underwear at this time. He always had underwear on when touching me, and vice versa, and we always make sure I go first and then him, to avoid stuff like this.

Thank you so much for your quick response. You have really eased my mind, and thank you for the advice [Smile]

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Heather
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Okay, so it really doesn't sound like there has been a risk here.

However you usually manage stress, I'd suggest doing some of whatever that is, okay? See if you can't calm yourself down.

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