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saraa
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My boyfriend and I were doing stuff and he pre came and he wiped it with his hand, but I don't remeber if I made him wash his hands or not, and then he fingered me.
CAN I GET PREGNANT?!
AM I PREGNANT?!?! [Frown] [Frown] !!!

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PLEASE ANSWER ME? [Frown]

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Hey, saraa, sometimes people are going to have to wait more than 20 minutes for an answer. please remember that this is a free service.

Pregnancy from pre-ejaculate is not something that'd generally be considered a possible risk save when there is also direct genital contact, such as during intercourse.

But your boyfriend should get in the habit of washing his hands before touching your vulva, more to help prevent infections than anything else. So from here on out, let him know he needs to do that. he also shouldn't need you to make him: if he's old enough to be having any kind of sex, he's old enough to do basic things like wash his hands.

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saraa
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So there's no need to worry??

and I was wondering, when are you at higher risk to get pregnant? like, when do you ovulate?

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So there's no need to worry??

and I was wondering, when are you at higher risk to get pregnant? like, when do you ovulate?

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Heather
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I see no cause for concern about pregnancy, no.

You have to chart your own fertility to find out when you, uniquely, are most fertile. All women do not have the same cycle.

Here, check this out: Get With the Flow: All About FAM.

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okay.
thank you so much! [Smile]

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