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Shelley
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Ok im SO confused. I need peace of mind.

MY boyfriend and I had sex yesterday @ 4:45-5 and he came and he kept on going for like 2 seconds and then stopped. He then said that there was thick discharge in my vagina and he thought it was him. He then said there was not alot of ejaculate in his condom, but I saw the condom when he pulled out and there was alot. He said that he never has little ejaculate. But he was also playing around with the condom. He then did the old fashioned safety test : put water int eh condom and see if any water comes out. Nothing came out. We bought EC pills because he was scared but I told him there is no possible way anything could have gotten through That discharge was me. I even asked the pharmacist and she said "it doesn't sound like you need the EC but I wasn't there" and i said to her "I told you everything". Now my bf has me all worried in a tizzy. Should I still take the EC? Is there any risk there?

I know this sounds dumb, I just need a second opinion so I dont go nuts.

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Shelley
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can someone please help me
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Shelley
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is anyone here?
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Please do not bump your post, especially not after as little as a few minutes. We are all volunteers with lives of our own, and we'll get to your post eventually.

If you used the condom correctly for all genital contact and it did not tear or break, then there is no need for EC.

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Shelley
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alright im sorry, i was just freaking out im sorry. but thank you so much ^_^
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no honestly sounds like you will be fine but if you do want to take it just for peace of mind it wont do you any harm

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(Joz, this area is for staff and volunteer responses only. Also, she has already been informed that she had no risk, and taking EC unecessarily is not a good plan since it's a huge whack of hormones that can make you feel pretty unpleasant for a few days- ain't worth it if there's no reason to take it.)

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