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PawDown
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I know this had been posted before but I just want to make sure. So me and my girlfriend were grinding she had lace underwear I had my boxers on I might have had pre cum I don't remember. It was 2 days before her period was over and she had a tampon in. I'm just worried by some miracle she is going to get pregnant. Even though pre cum contains little sperm can someone clear this up so I don't have to worry anymore
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Well, when you have seen the other posts with these situations, what did the answers tell you?

And have you also looked on the main site first for this answer, like at pieces like this one: Can I Get Pregnant, or Get or Pass On an STI From That?

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They always told me it's very unlikely but it still has my worried
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Heather
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Well, the answers to you are not going to be any different, because those are the facts. Miracle pregnancies? Also not facts: in real life, there just really is not such a thing, even though some people talk about their pregnancies that way. pregnancy happens in only very limited, specific ways. No miracles, just some pretty basic biology.

But if you still feel worried, then your next step is to figure out what you need to deal with those feelings. What do you think would make you feel better and feel able to resolve this for yourself?

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I guess I'll just have to wait and see
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Heather
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And in the meantime, you can do things you do for yourself when you are worried or stressed about things: things you know from experience make you feel better and help you deal.

Do you know what some of those things, for you, are?

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Sadly no
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Well, we can help you with some ideas, then: Self-Care a La Carte

Try some of the things on this list that appeal to you. Learning how to take care of yourselves and manage our stresses is a very, very important basic life-skill we all need for our well-being.

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