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I was messing around with some girl and i may have precame, i really am not sure and i was wearing pants and dont remember going in my underwear and making contact with it at all, but i did end up attempting to finger her. I say it like that because her pants were so tight i had problems making it down, and i really only made it to where the "lips" begin. Because of this i only rubbed the surface and did no penetrating, and likely did not even touch the vagina. For some reason I am still worried about it and would like some reasurance, Thanks
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HI There,
Can you take a look at this post? Then, if you have questions or concerns you can come back and talk about them.
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I looked at the post i know its not likely im still worried can you please just give me an answer
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quote:Were you only kissing, having oral sex, manual sex and/or dry sex, where everyone had clothes on and no one ejaculated on or very near anyone else's vulva? These kinds of sex do NOT present any pregnancy risks, though some can present risks of STIs.
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yes i think it would its just i can't remember if i put my hands in my pants at all prior to going into hers and i dont remember the feeling of any liquid being on my hands when i went into hers, so i guess there is no risk?
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There's no risk with manual sex (sex using hands on genitals) anyway, as sperm cells are too delicate to be transfered like that.
For manual sex to actually be a risk, your hands would have to be dripping with fresh ejaculate, which you'd notice.
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sorry to bother you guys one more time, but i feel that looking through other forums i have heard enough freak stories with precum and fingering that i still feel i need to worry, but i am thinking that since i definitely did not penetrate the vagina that i am safe, is this true?
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Sperm cells need very specific conditions in order to be able keep their potenial to help create a pregnancy (temperature, moisture, etc). They aren't viable (they lose their ability to move) if they've been transfered onto hands.
The internet is full of misinformation about pregnancy; this site is reputable one.
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