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I know this question has been asked probably lots of times, I've even read loads of them, but I'm terrified, and paranoid, and need reassurance. Oh god. Anyway.

So about a week and a half ago, my boyfriend and I were in his house, and I gave him a hand job, he didn't ejaculate, but there was definitely precum there. He touched his penis quite a bit before fingering me, again he didn't ejaculate, but there may or may not have been precum on his hands. judging by the fact that I haven't had my period yet, I'm more inclined to believe there was.

At the time I didn't worry too much,but I am now two days late for my period, which is usually like clockwork. I haven't had any particular lifestyle changes, or extra stress, but I guess this being my first time sexually active could have messed up my hormones a bit. I'm not getting my usual PMS symptoms though, which is worrying. Only difference is lower abdomen pains all day today.

So basically, could I be/ am I pregnant? I've been going crazy worrying over this.

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Saffron Raymie
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The lower abdominal pains are likely to be you period on it's way, yes. However, despite how regular we are, sometimes our cycles are different lengths for no reason at all. It's quite common for a period to come earlier or later than expected sometimes.

There's no chance of the abdominal pains being a sign of preganncy, in case that's what you're thinking - as pregnancy symptoms don't show up that early.

However, you have not had a risk here at all. There is no chance of pregnancy from manual sex. For manual sex you pose any kind of risk, one would have to be literally inserting handfuls of fresh ejaculate. Sperm cells don't survive on hands. So, no worries here.

'Obtain the virgin's consent before you marry her' - Prophet Mohammad (pbuh)

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Thank you so incredibly much [Razz] I'll wait for my period to come, failing that, I'll take a pregnancy test in about a week, just to be very very sure. A lot less worried now, I guess it'll teach me to be careful.
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