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Mookie
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Since my boyfriend and I have been dating we have had a few sexual encounters, we still haven't gotten to go all they way. We both think that if I use my mouth, it will help our problem out. He knows I dont like the idea of doing that so he doesn't press the idea. When I asked my friends they said I might like it because Im in love with him. Either way, sometimes I feel that it is only right to return the favor. For valentine's day I wanted to surprise him and go "down south" for the first time. My only problem is, I've never done it before and Im scared of what the outcome might be. Do you have any advice on if I should do it, or if I should just stick with my first mind?
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Stephanie_1
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You know, one thing we always suggest is that you should follow what you feel comfortable with. If this is something you want to try, understand that if at any point you're really not comfortable you should stop and go back to something you are comfortable with (and also want to remember a condom to protect from STIs if you're not both tested.) Best thing to do is follow what you're feeling is best, so if you feel uncomfortable with the idea it's best to stay away from it for right now.

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Thank you,,I really appreciate any advice I get
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You're very welcome [Smile]

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