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Brittanycookie
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I really appreciate y'all trying to help me out, I know im not the easiest person to deal with.

But normally when me and my boyfriend have sex, and i get really "wet" it slides right in, but today its like, idk how to explain it because i know its not the right term, but it feels like I've gotten tighter in a since.
I really don't know how to explain it, but it feels like I'm tighter. We thought it was because I wasn't very wet, so we used something called sweet lick "tight". I know its not the correct term but thats like the only thing i can use to describe it.
We think it might be because of the lube we used?
Any ideas? I'm just curious.

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Was that lubricant water based? Something to check. Most likely you just weren't aroused enough or quite ready for entry. Sometimes this will happen. You can certainly try a diff lube if you think it was part of it, but also try spending a little more time with other types of sex before having your partner enter you.

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What are other types of sex?
And we also tryed in the shower, same problem.
And it's never been a problem before.
Well it was when we first had sex but thats about it

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Other types of sex being oral, manual, etc. Some people class it as foreplay, but it's a really bad term for it as it's just a different type of sex. The shower is notoriously a bad place for intercourse, because the water can wash away self-lubrication or water based lube. But spending more time on other activities before entry is usually helpful. And u can look into diff lubes (Astroglide, liquid silk, pink) if you think that's part of the problem.

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This isnt very helpful. And we had just gotten out the shower. We always do those types of things, but normally I'll give him a blowjob so it's easier on his part t6o go in. And i didn't, so we used a lube called sweet lick. And ever since we used it its been like that I've been tighter in since. And we have tryed oral to make sure it would go in smooth. Same problem, ever since we used the lube stuff.
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Well, if you think the new lube you used is the culprit, then you'll just want to get a different kind. Stephanie lists some good options.

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