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keepinitgreen
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Lately I've been...craving (for lack of a better word) sex. I don't know how to deal with it. I just don't really enjoy masturbation. SO I'm at a complete loss for this frustration. I've been trying to take it out with excersizing (running, cardio, etc.)That stopped working, so then I tried relaxation techniques that work good for me (yoga, painting, drawing, listening to music). Does anyone have any advice for me?

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Alice
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Hi there,

I peeked through your post history and saw that you recently had intercourse for the first time, and that you didn't feel great about it after. How is that going? Are you still in contact with the friend you had sex with?

When feeling sexually frustrated but unable/unwilling to have partnered sex, masturbation tends to be the greatest outlet. I know you feel that you don't enjoy it, may I ask you to expand on that a little? Like, is it just uncomfortable, painful, or do you feel that it is wrong somehow?

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keepinitgreen
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With my sexual partner, we've hung out in a group of people a few times. It's still kind of awkward, but it's not bad at all.

I don't feel masturbation is wrong. And it's not uncomfortable or painful. I just can't really get that much satisfaction from it.

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