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Hello, I've been masturbating with my clit stimulator a friend gave me (brand new) for a 2 weeks about. Anyway I get done and I feel sore (around my outer lip. Maybe I was too rough? (I push alittle hard down there to feel vibrations. Any advice
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Hmm it could be that you are pushing a little too hard or the strength of the vibration...have you spoken to a doctor about this?
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I also forgot to mention a day or two ago I wore this pair of panties that didn't have much of a lining for the vagina so it kinda was like a front wedgie so maybe that can be abother reason for being sore too?
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yeah I haven't been using it that long, so maybe thats what it is thanks !
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As for the panties, that could be due to the soreness as well. If you were wearing jeans or jean shorts, the denim could've rubbed against your skin and irritated it.
And no problem! Hope you get better!
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Maritess, this area is for users to post in who only want answers from Scarleteen staff and volunteers, okay? We'll see you on the reast of the boards!
Mikosama, I'm just going to go straight back to your initial question: are you using a lubricant with this toy? As well, are you reaching orgasm or not (that can be a factor)?
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Hi Heather! no not using lube, usually when I maturbate I'm really lubricated, I think the areas I'm placing it and putting the vibrator down hard in some areas may have caused some trouble. I do reach orgasm.
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Hi again Heather I forgot to mention this, for a few days, 2-3 that my breasts are tender and sore a symptom I feel before my cycle comes, could this also be a factor too?
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I would bear in mind that it may be worth trying adding some lube. So often I hear, "No, I don't need it," from folks who haven't actually tried adding it to see if it helps.
And it may well be part of the soreness is from not needing lube, esp. since you're putting it on an area where your body's lubrication often doesn't cover well.
By all means, see if you need to be more gentle, too, but unless it has sharp edges or hurts when you're using it, I feel like pressure w/it is less likely than other things to be the why of the soreness.
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Hi Heather! I think I have been too rough, because other times I've used it and not was pushing hard with the vibrator I'm not sore. thanks for helping me Posts: 41 | From: somewhere in the world | Registered: Sep 2009
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