Hi Me and my gf (I'm 20 and she's 19) started having sex 3 months ago. It's always hard to penetrate the first time, we use another lube and it helps, but we always have to go very slowly until everything's in.. She feels a little discomfort in this process. However, after it's in, she doesn't feel any more pain and thinks it's great. Everything flows good then.. However, if we did it, and want to do it again in like 20 minutes (even some hours later, or 1 day), we can't do it because she feels too much pain. She says he's wants it really bad, but her body won't ler her.. I considered some possible causes: 1- She's taking accutane, so I thought it could make her dry down there, so it could hurt her. 2- I'm kind of a big guy, and she's small, so I guess it's just about waiting that, with time, her body should adapt to this difference (I feel it's very tight).. Could it be something else? We really want to do it more then once a weekend! Thanks
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You being big and her being little is not likely to be the cause of this. Think about it this way: the vagina can relax and expand enough to fit a baby through...and I've never seen a penis bigger than a baby.
The dryness could be some of it, but this sounds like it may be more of a physical issue. Has she had a full check-up by an OB/GYN? Pelvic exam, pap smear, etc? If not, that's where she needs to start.
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