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Namida
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My girlfriend and I have been having sex for a while now, using condoms. I just use regular size but they are very difficult to get over the head of my penis (some days it takes both of us to roll it down over the head). I'm quite wide and have considered trying large condoms but I'm worried they would be too big and I would slip. I'm even more perplexed because last time my girflriend and I were spooning, she pulled away as I was sliding out so we could change possitions and she closed her thighs around the condom and it slid off of me rather easily.

So my question is, what's the right fit for a condom? How tight should it be?

[ 08-23-2009, 11:13 AM: Message edited by: Namida ]

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What I usually suggest for men new to condom use is to get yourself a few different styles and brands, then try them with masturbation to see what feels best to you, and you can also then see if you get too much slip.

It does sound like you could stand to try a larger-size condom, given the difficulty you have rolling it on, and the slip you have had with condoms so far (sometimes to-tight condoms slip off more easily than those that are too large).

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Thank you very much (speediest reply ever).

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