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criminskeyes
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Im terrible at writing long topics so this will be very short.

My girlfriend seems near impervious to showing pleasure, while she says she feels it she doesn't show it at all. Im really confused and i have been trying a few different ways to make her show, none of them are working which is a worry considering i find it a turn on.

Im talking of fingering not sex to get that clear. Any help on this would be greatly appreciated [Smile]

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I want to know what is happening on her end so i can understand it better, she says she gets the sensation, but what could be the reason that she doesnt show it? She isn't holding it back apparently either.

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What are you expecting her to do to show he pleasure? What are you basing those expectations on?

Not all women scream or moan with pleasure. But that doesn't mean that they don't feel pleasure, or that there is something wrong with them.

So if your girlfriend tells you that she does feel good, there is no reason for you to doubt her. There is also no reason to try like crazy to 'make her' show. How she feels and expresses pleasure is exactly the way she feels and expresses pleasure, and that's perfectly fine.

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Thanks for your help, i realise im expecting her to show, not quite accepting subconciously that she doesnt.
I appreciate your help [Smile]

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