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idk how to french and i'm worried i'll suck and i've been watching vids, but it's no help if you don't have practise. what do you do?
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You know, kissing is not some sort of choregraphy you got to learn, that is something that should come naturally when the time is right and when you're with the right person.
So personnally, I'd ditch the videos, I don't think they are really of any big help to you. There are no right way to kiss anyway, everyone does things slightly differently.
So, really, just try to relax and not stress about it, that is not what kissing should be about.
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well, I've already tried to and he said i wasnt good and that i should learn but i don't know how.
-------------------- "think outside the box, collapse the box, and take a f***ing sharp knife to it." - banksy Posts: 58 | From: Canada | Registered: Jun 2006
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Understand that, when it comes to this sort of thing, there is no 'good' or 'bad'. There is only 'this works for me' and 'this doesn't work for me'. Which means that you may not have been compatible with this guy (and that he was very immature for saying what he did), but certainly not that you are bad at kissing.
Here's all you need to know for kissing: don't analyze what you are doing and don't try to memorize a certain choreography or movement. Just do what feels right, when it feels right. That is all.
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"The question is not who will let me, but who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand Posts: 8422 | From: Cologne, Germany | Registered: Sep 2005
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I promise, I comes naturally, It just happens. Let go and if they insult you just say they were bad and everyone will believe you because your a girl its great fun life.
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Trou - this section is for Volunteer replies only. See you on the rest of the boards!
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"The question is not who will let me, but who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand Posts: 8422 | From: Cologne, Germany | Registered: Sep 2005
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