Recently my girlfriend and I had oral fir the first time. Only I was the only one doing anything. We talk about the whole topic pretty regularly, and she says she would do it to me, but whenever I bring up the topic she seems scared. She says she doesn't want me to cum in her mouth, and I wouldn't. I've promised her I wouldn't. Is there anything I can say to get her to feel more confident about the topic?
Posts: 1 | From: Illinois | Registered: Jan 2008
| IP: Logged |
If her biggest concern is you ejaculating in her mouth, that's easily taken care of: safer sex! Using condoms that are either flavored or using flavored lubricants makes sure the taste isn't an issue and prevents any ejaculate from going in her mouth.
It's a good idea anyway, to use condoms, since anytime there's the transfer of fluids, there's a distinct chance of passing on any STIs.
The other best thing I can recommend is to keep talking. If she's scared, then don't force her. Let her let you know when she's ready to go forward.
In the meantime, here's some light reading: Safer Sex
-------------------- Caylin, Scarleteen Volunteer Love Scarleteen? Donations keep us around for you. So give a little! (Or a lot. Whatever works for you.) Posts: 2789 | From: The Evergreen State | Registered: Jun 2000
| IP: Logged |
Copyright 1998, 2013 Heather Corinna/Scarleteen
Scarleteen.com: Providing comprehensive sex education online to teens and young adults worldwide since 1998
Information on this site is provided for educational purposes. It is not meant to and cannot substitute for advice or care provided by an in-person medical professional. The information contained herein is not meant to be used to diagnose or treat a health problem or disease, or for prescribing any medication. You should always consult your own healthcare provider if you have a health problem or medical condition.