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archer
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Well, just wanted to confirm that this presents no risk.

First my guy kissed me.....

Then I touched the tip of his penis.....there was very very very little wetness on my finger....

So scared I went and washed my hands in cold running water.....

Then he zipped up his pants...and fingered me...he was fully clothed when he fingered me...

Hope theres no risk here......

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Nope, no risk there. Sperm don't survive when you wash your hands.

But Archer - looking through your post history, we've had a lot of posts from you asking about pregnancy risks, usually from very unlikely situations. I'm sure you're aware that we have a three-strikes rule here and you've really just about exhausted that.

If you have so many worries and fears concerning pregnancy, you might want to rethink whether it's wise for you to be sexually active at this point.

If you do have another query regarding risks, why not check out our handy article first:
What's the Risk? Easy Pregnancy Risk Assessments

[ 07-02-2007, 07:12 AM: Message edited by: September ]

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archer
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I am so sorry about tht...I'll take care from now on but just one lst question....while i went to wsh my hnds, in cse in cse he hs little sperm on his hands, which may have come from zipping up his pants, would there still be no risk? because it was sometime before i cme back almost 10 minutes.....

So sorry abt going aginst the rule...I promise this is my last question....

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Once exposed to air, sperm dies within about 15 or so minutes. So if your partner accidentally touched himself and while zipping up and then waited for you, even if he did get some sperm on his fingers, it likely wouldn't have been enough to cause any risks and even if it had been, it likely wouldn't have been viable anymore after all that time.

It's not that we don't want you posting here, Archer. It's just that, when you post with the same concerns over and over again, we're not really going to be able to give you new answers. At some point, we're just not able to help anymore.

If you find that you're still really worried about pregnancy, you can talk about that with other users in our thread here:
http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=9;t=001131

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archer
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Thanks a lot....and I forgot to mention that he did touch my clothes with his hands before fingering me...so I assume sperm would have been killed by the time his hnds reached down there.....
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