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ok so i had sex for the first time tonite. unfortunately it was unprotected and yes i do regret it but no i didnt have a full ejaculation... bsically i didnt get off i pulled out evry time i evn got alil bit excited... its 3 days after her period... basically she cant get pregnant i mean ofcourse she can but chances are rly slim rite? and will she miss her period next month or will it run late or wat? basically im worried about her i wouldnt leave her if she was but i dont want to lie to her either... so ne info would b rly very appriciated thank you
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You're right; there is a pregnancy risk. She can get emergency contraception any time in the next four days to curtail her pregnancy risk. To find out how she can get that, you can read about it here: Emergency Contraception or call 1-800-NOT-2-LATE.
You also both have STD risks, so you'll want to think about screening for those at a later date.
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neither o us have ne std's so im not worried about that weve both been checked fo various reasons but emergency contraception... is he risk of her becoming pregnant high? i wouldnt think shed have ne eggs this close aft her period and evn if so wat few sperm dd get in i would have thoughttheyd have died rather quickly
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You had unprotected sex. That makes for a pregnancy risk. Even if you did not ejaculate, pre-cum can contain sperm and it takes only one of 'em to make you pregnant.
Where she was in her cycle is fairly irrelevant because, especially in teens, it's very difficult to correctly predict ovulation. It's therefore best to consider any time a bad time to have unprotected sex.
So, I second ErinK. Obtaining EC is your best move if you do not wish to become pregnant.
(And next time? Just use a condom.)
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