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Ok first, there is guys at my school that like me but the problem is, is that their in 12th grade and im in 9th. And i've heard them talking about how they wanna get with me and do that kind of stuff. But the other problem is, is that they do bad bad things and i dont know what i should do? Does anybody have a solution for me.??? Posts: 15 | From: Missouri | Registered: Jan 2007
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My biggest suggestion is to take care of you. You're hearing rumors that they would like to be with you for a specific purpose, in addition to the fact that you're insinuating they participate in other illegal activities: all of these are HUGE red flags to me. My second suggestion: steer clear. Don't put yourself in danger, either physically, emotionally, or otherwise.
Bear in mind, as well, that if you're hanging out with them and they get caught, you'll also be liable; you'll be judged on the company you keep.
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Yea but there not all rumors because one of their friends is my friend that i talk to all the time. And i also hear what their saying at the lunch table because i sit on the same table but on the our side with my friends. But the problem is,is that i think that one of them is very attractive. Well, thanks for help i'll keep it in mind
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Plenty of people who aren't safe for us are people we might find attractive.
That doesn't mean we can't be smart and recognize that physically attractive people aren't always safe people and move the heck on and away.
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