Im seventeen years old and i know its sad that i know very little about sex..not to mention that i havent really ever done anything..anyhow..ive had a boyfriend now for about a year and a half and we havent done anything sexual period..no oral sex or anything..but i guess when he told me his size i got really intimidated because i felt like when we do have sex it will hurt me a lot? What size is just too big among men?
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If you are highly aroused, using lubrication as needed, are communicating with a responsive partner, have engaged in other sexual activities you enjoy first and very much WANT (physically and emotionally) to be having intercourse, then really, few penis sizes are going to cause great pain.
(Let's bear in mind that 13 inches long is the longest on record, and that per length, your male partner can control how deeply he penetrates. Usually, width is a greater comfort factor than length for that reason, since one cannot control that per how much is going into the vagina.)
But intercourse isn't something to overly concern yourself with if you're not yet sexually active in any other ways: no matter a partners size, jumping right to that from ground zero generally doesn't result in great sex for anyone.
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