well i just remembered the very first person i ever gave oral sex to and i remembered something. when we were talking about how she likes it she said that there are certain times during it when she likes direct clit stimulation. she told me when she wanted me to do it she would rub my head (as a subtle hint) and i would pull back the hood and stimulate it but only for about 2 seconds. but i just saw something that said direct clit stimulation is very un-comfortable for girls, obviously its not true for all woman, but is that true for most?
What is comfortable or uncomfortable for any given woman varies, like you said yourself, and so it's pretty impossible to say for sure whether or not one things is true for a majority of women, or not.
It is true that direcft clitoral stimulation can be uncomfortable, the reason for this is because the clitoris has a very large amount of nerve endings, and can therefore be sensitive to any given amount of stimulus or pressure. So, some women may like and feel comfortable with a lot of pressure on the clitoris, others find it uncomfortable to be directly touched there at all.
The only way to really know if direct clitoral stimulation is uncomfortable or not to a woman is to ask; comuntication is incredibly important in a sexual relationship, and what any woman you happen to be with now or in the future finds comfortable or uncomfortable will be entirely up to her and up to you to ask her about.
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