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bandmonkey101
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Hi. This message is for people who know what they're talking about. I have a boyfriend and he wants to have phone sex because I live in Nevada and he lives in Colorado (he's a freshman in college and I'm a senior in high school). I know him really well and I love him, but I'm a little embarrassed that I don't really know how to masturbate. He knows this and says that the whole phone sex thing would be "good practice". I don't know why but I'm really nervous about phone sex. I'm not nervous about face to face, with him here because I love him, but the phone thing scares me. What am I supposed to do??
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LilBlueSmurf
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You can tell him that you're not comfortable with it ... Just exactly what you told us here. You need to communicate your feelings to your partner !!

And then he needs to stop bringing it up. He asked, you said you're not comfortable w/ it, and then he needs to drop it. Tell him that you'll come to him when you're ready, and if you're never ready, he'll have to accept that too.


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