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ok i had sex for the first time two day's ago and i'm really sore and tenender is that normal? also it didn't hurt or bleed and it was my first time and i know i haven't broken my hymen, is that normal, the only thing that happend that i've heard is suppose to happen is that i felt alot of pressure almost pain when he went all the way in, and i'm not sure if any of this is normal
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You were doing something you'd not done before, with a part of your body that hadn't experienced that before. There may have been some friction--maybe you weren't using a condom-safe lube--or you may have a latex allergy you don't know about. If you weren't using a condom, you were at risk for STD/STI transmission, so there's that factor, too.

If the irritation doesn't go away in a couple of days, or if you were not using a condom for intercourse, it's time to see your doctor. Otherwise, some slight irritation is perfectly normal.

Laurel Lemming
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