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im really worried right now me and my girl friend have been having sex like 3 times in the last two weeks two weeks ago was our firts time we really havent been using protection but i never really went all the way inside of her and well i did not come in her either but every time i came i would clean my self and like 10 minutes later we will do it again what are the chances that something did happen what is the minimum you must do to get someone pregnant (i feel like an idiot should i really be putting my self down that much) i have never had someone to ask questions like this before im glad i found this site . thanks if anyone can help.
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Hi tito,
Well, the first thing is that your girlfriend may be pregnant. I suggest refraining from intercourse until you and your partner have things sorted out.

First of all, go to the drugstore and purchase two home pregnancy tests. Take one now, and take the other either 10 days (or more) after the last time you had sex, or wait until her period is supposed to arrive. If her period doesn't come, take the second test.

There is a pregnancy risk when sperm comes in contact with the vulva. Pre-ejaculate, a fluid that a penis produced when the man is aroused, contains sperm, as well as semen. Therefore, there's a pregnancy risk every time you have unprotected sex. So in the future, please use condoms and barrier protection to reduce pregnancy risks and reduce STD transmission. You two have an STD risk, so you might want to schedule a STD screening at a local clinic.

Why don't you and your girlfriend read the following articles? I think that they will clear a lot of things up and you'll learn a lot about keeping yourselves safe and healthy. If you have more questions, make sure that you have carefully read the articles, as well as the board search function and site search function.

Am I pregnant?
What's The Risk? - Five Easy Pregnancy Risk Assessment Flow Charts
Ready or Not? –The Readiness Checklist
First Intercourse 101 Safe, Sound & Sexy – A Safer Sex How-To

Kindness and honesty can be expected only from the strong.

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