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Caramel_freak4u
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Well, I have jerked of like a thousand times and now I'm 15 and still a virgin I just met this girl about 3 days ago and she came ova the next day and we fooled around and she went down on me and she did not really know what she was doin but any way today she came ova again and and she went down again( it was a lil better than last time) but any way then I went down on her....and then we started kissing and she wanted me to put it in...so I tried ( without a condem)...(yes i know I should of used a condem)..but any way I tried and I couldn't get fully hard...it was hard but not stickin up in the air hard...if u know what i mean...But I tried and I could not get it in...I just couldn't get hard enough....What is wrong with me??...I really like her
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*Moving to Ask an Advocate*

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It's not uncommon for young men to be nervous and have difficult maintaining an erection during first (or early) attempts at intercourse. Nerves and stress can have a big effect on that.

First of all, make sure you're using all the necessary safer sex precautions (that means for oral sex, anal sex, and/or intercourse). Knowing that you've taken every step possible to prevent pregnancy and disease can do wonders for reducing your stress level. And secondly, just try to relax. Sex isn't necessarily all about intercourse, so if it doesn't happen right this second, that's ok. The more comfortable you are, and the less you stress about maintaining that erection, the easier it will be.

Check out these articles:
Ready or Not?
First Intercourse 101
Safe, Sound & Sexy – A Safer Sex How-To

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