I don't know if this is the correct place to ask this question - if it's not, tell me where to post it - but here goes nothing. I am 19, female and currently in college. I've had two relationships with guys that didn't work out because the guys wanted to have much more serious relationships than I felt I was ready for. I'm currently single and have never had sex with either gender. I'm sure I'm attracted to guys, but earlier this year I began to wonder if I'm attracted to girls also. I have this really close female friend and there has been times when I'm sure I love her more than a friend. There's other evidence of an attraction to girls. But I'm wondering if this is more of a security issue - I was a late bloomer and didn't date until college and since I'm having trouble liking straight guys b/c I'm afraid of hurting their feelings if they like me more than I like them. Any girl I've thought I could like has been straight, so there's no danger of them liking me back. Do you think this is just late questioning of my sexuality, a security issuje or am I just having trouble accepting the fact I'm bi? (And thanks for letting me ramble on and ask general questions^^)
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