Here's a tricky thing, just food for thought.
How do we KNOW what it is to "feel male" or "feel female," especially when gender, not sex, is a construct and feintions are so arbitrary? Really, we don't: we can't.
It's helpful to realize that gender really, truly isn't binary (heck, biological sex even isn't). So, very often, the gender identity of any of us is going to be at least somewhat fluid, likely not match very strict binaries, and isn't anything close to as simple as what gendered (by culture or individuals, which is already arbitrary) clothing we wear, how we difne male or female, or what we're told it is to "feel" like either.