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BookWorm
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well im a little embarassed to write this, and im not sure where this belongs but this i believe is the right place. but when i masterbate. and fatasize about my g/f.*i myself and a 16 yr old male* but when i masterbate i fantasize about being a female. as my g/f..its confusing ill be masterbating and ill pretend im my girlfriend and fantasize about *me* going down on her.. but i am her...does anyone understand that? if so can you help me understand why i think like this?
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Heather
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Putting oneself in the place of one's partner in your sexual imagination, no matter their gender, is a perfectly normal and common sexual fantasy for people of all genders and orientations.
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BookWorm
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thnk you Miz S. so im a freak. as i thought.
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Um, no, Miz S said that what you describe is "perfectly normal and common".

So you're not a freak at all.

People have all sorts of sexual fantasies, and they don't necessarily say anything about what you might want in real life.


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BookWorm
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NO omgosh no im sorry i apologize...lol im so sorry i didnt mean i was a freak i mean to say 'thnk you Miz S. so im NOT a freak. as i thought.


IM SORRY i really do apologize. my mind was thiniing faster than my hands where typing. i DO apologize


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No big deal dear.

Logic just wanted to make sure you understood what was said; no one's upset.


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