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I have been on birth control since I was 14 and was using for months before I started having sex. I feel weird saying this but I don't really care for sex nothing works. I do not get aroused or usually even enjoy it. I never have is this because of the birth control? Also very dry and it seems like lube doesn't help it usually just gets sticky and then reapplying makes a bigger sticky mess...
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Before we talk about anything else, it's really important to address anyone having sex when they aren't liking it. If you don't like it -- in a word -- don't do it. Sex of all kinds is OPTIONAL, not required, and is about pleasure. If you're not feeling that, it just doesn't make sense to engage in it, for a whole host of reasons.
That said, let's look at a few questions: do you have the same experience when masturbating? Do you feel very strongly attracted to -- feel chemistry with -- the sex partner or partners you have or have had? When you talk about sex, do you mean ALL sex or only intercourse? Do you feel unaroused, for instance, with a good makeout session, with petting, with oral sex?
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Some things get me aroused but not like "Oh my god" I have actually had trouble finding things that turn me on. There have been a few times when sex was enjoyable but I guess I just don;'t know what's wrong with me. Most times for sex I am unaroused so I figure that is why it's unpleasurable. Masturbating only works for clitoral stimulation can't seem to make anything work for the inside.
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