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pillowcaseblue
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I just began dating my boyfriend a few weeks ago. He's your normal, popular guy who has had a lot of sex with a lot of pretty girls. Last night, we were mutually masturbating via video chat and he swallowed his own ejaculate after he orgasmed. I was speechless. While I found it extremely arousing, I also found it very weird. I'm still in a state of disbelief. I know everyone has their own ideas of what's hot in the bedroom, but I can't seem to shake what he did and I don't know why. Why am I in such a conflicted state? Is it because of the taboo nature of what he did, or does it have to do with my own sexual comfort level?
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Heather
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I'd say it's fairly common for people to involve tasting or ingesting bodily fluids -- their own, a partner's or both -- in sexual activity.

I can't tell you why you're feeling the way you are about it, though. Why do you think you're feeling this way?

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pillowcaseblue
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I'm not sure. I guess I'm a little bit nervous about what else he may like in bed. We've only had intercourse twice. I guess it's time for a conversation!
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Heather
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Can I ask why this makes you feel nervous? Are you perhaps making assumptions about what else he might like based on what you think "matches" with his having enjoyed tasting his fluids?

If so, want to maybe talk about where you think you're getting the ideas you are?

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