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Alergnon
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I am just going to throw a question out there. Has anyone had sex outside in a public place? Last night I had sex with one of my guy friends next to a dentist office and a big evergreen tree was blocking the view of others, this happened when it was dark. We were going to do it in a parking lot of a car dealership.

So has anyone had sex outside or in a public place?

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Heather
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You know, before we talk about this, are you still in this space: http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/2/t/013874/p/1.html#000000

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Alergnon
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Yes it is Heather. Sorry. It wasn't with my ex, it was with a friend of mine who used to be my friends with benefits. I needed something, I was really angry, sad, frustrated, and so many more emotions and after, I felt better, I felt like I could go about the rest of the day feeling normal and since then, those emotions haven't bugged me.
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Heather
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Gotcha.

So, you know, here's the thing with public sex: it's not legal and if you get caught, you can wind up with super-fun (note:sarcasm) indecent exposure charges.

Mind, that level of risk is usually what gets people so excited about it, and it's not like people don't break laws, but with you having so many troubles to deal with as it is, it seems to me that risking some more at this time isn't so sound for you, you know?

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I know what your saying, I could get caught for what I did or if I continue doing it I may end up getting caught.
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Heather
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...and that can mean a host of things, like sexual harassment or being charged with the crime public sex is (and the charges are usually bigger on private property, like places belonging to a business, because then trespassing charges can be part of that, too).

Again, you've talked a lot here about feeling so overwhelmed with how much you have to deal with in your life, and the endless, in your experience, onslaught of hardship, so it just seems like willing putting yourself of more isn't so wise.

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