I started sleeping with a new guy, he's sweet but we're having some sex problems. His dick is really big - like thicker than most of my forearm, my fingers don't meet around it - I am using lube but even when it's feeling good at the time I notice I'm a bit sore the next day. I can never go for as long as he wants, which he respects but I want to be able to reciprocate more too.
I'm bi so I like to think I'm pretty creative at sex outside of penis-vagina intercourse but I can barely get my mouth around it and he's not really into handjobs and not up for pegging. So I'm at a loss for what I can offer?
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So, first things first, have you talked with him about this and asked what he thinks he might enjoy that's doable? As well, even with things like oral sex, that doesn't have to involve having his penis in your mouth entire if that isn't comfortable for you.
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