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Hey, my girlfriend says that she was able to get a clit orgasm- she said she felt contractions ? Then she said she fingered herself without touchin her clit and she said she could feel an orgasm comin bt she lost it. Could this be the g spot orgasm ?
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yes, muscle spasms happen when a women orgasms, however the intensity vary from women to women , from time to time. SOme women might not feel them but still have intense orgasms .
That could have been a g-spot orgasm coming on , however its also notable that the clitoral tissue/structures extend below the surface and go deep down ( we cant see them) and this might be another way of triggering a clitoral orgasm without direct stimulation .
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To be clear though, there is no such thing as a "G-spot orgasm" and a "clitoral orgasm." In fact, the clitoris is internal as well as external and the g-spot is a part of the internal bit of the clitoris (see Pink Parts - Female Sexual Anatomy). Sexual health professionals have pretty well agreed that separating out into two types of orgasm isn't correct. An orgasm is an orgasm, period.
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Oh thanx a lot, so the so called 'g-spot orgasm' is infact the stimulation of the internal part of the clitoris ? So when 'robot_on_fire' says that the clit goes deep down and that could be wat it is, so this is actually the so called g-spot orgasm ? (i know it's not right to call it this, but i want to know if this is what is popularly known as the g-spot orgasm?)
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When my girlfriend said she could feel an orgasm comin wen she was fingerin herself (inside), does dat mean that i could give her an orgasm with intercourse alone ?
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When people say g-spot orgasm, yes, that's what they usually mean, even though it's inaccurate.
Yesman, I don't honestly know how many more ways to explain that the majority of women do not reach orgasm with intercourse alone. Might your girlfriend be in the minority who does? Maybe, maybe not, you two will just have to see. Does what she feels when fingering herself have any relevance to intercourse? Maybe, maybe not, you'll just have to see.
But either way, what should matter most is that whatever you two do sexually feels good to you both, orgasm or not. If she likes what you're doing, and wants to do what you are, that's what matters. And if any one activity by itself doesn't bring her to orgasm, you two can always try adding others or doing others.
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