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I have a problem with vaginal play. Almost everytime I masturbate, when I have vaginal play, I feel like I bump my perineum and it's not comfortable at all. Or at other time it feels as if it's my tummy. (You get what I mean ?) I've been trying to change angles and everything and yet this is a problem I still have going on.
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Are you sure you aren't confusing body parts, here? The perineum is a flat length of skin right under the vaginal opening. It is not inside the vagina. It simply seperates the anus and the vaginal opening. Could you be talking about your cervix?
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Well it's like part of the wall of my vagina near my anus (well from inside). I get a sensation there when the wall is hit and it certainly isn't funny.
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Cool, here's a question: why are you engaging in vaginal play during masturbation if it's always uncomfortable? It doesn't sound as if you're getting a lot out of it.
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Vaginal play is pleasurable for me(to a certain extend of course) mostly when there is no back and forth movements. When there is, as I said, there is some sharp pain since I am hitting the vagina wall and well because of some other issue.
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Pardon my sounding simplistic, but if you know a given thing hurts, gal, just don't do that thing.
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As has already been explained, here and before, it's normal for not everything a person can do sexually to feel wonderful for everyone. People vary, and to boot, not everything any of us can do to or with our genitals feels good: some things may feel great, others okay, others still distinctly unpleasant.
Not being right there to know exactly what you're talking about, it's hard to be more specific than that, but per usual, things like this are always things you can ask your GYN about, who you can show visually what you're talking about.
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