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im starting to have some minor-moderate ED and im only 19!!! i have no problem keeping an erection when i masturbate (maybe once a week if that) but when im with a partner, sometimes i lose it very easily. ill give you an example of that. tuesday night i met a girl, and one thing led to another. i put on a condom and just as i finished doing that, i started to lose my erection. i was very much embarassed because that had never happened to me in that situation. i've had that happen very mildly, but never when preparing for intercourse have i completely lost my erection... it has happened that i do start to flag and need a little extra stimulation before im ready but ive never been so shaken and embarassed. eventually i got myself back together and all was well for the rest of the night(and morning :-D).

EDIT: I accidentally put this in the wrong section. Can a volunteer please move it for me? thanks.

[ 09-27-2006, 10:20 PM: Message edited by: frey ]

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(I'll bump this over to Sex Basics and Sexual Health after I reply!)

"ED" really isn't this big huge end-all gigantic problem that a lot of people (and commercials) make it out to be. [Smile]

Stress and nerves and a number of things can have an effect on erection and arousal, check out our article for a little more information: Erectile Dysfunction (Why you don't have to get so down about not getting up)

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Sometimes partnered sex can be really stressful for Little Frey. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you, just that you need to be a little bit more patient with yourself when you have company, and perhaps discuss it with her. She should understand--women sometimes have trouble staying aroused, too.
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