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Josie16
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I'm 16, and my best girlfriend Gina is 15. We have engaged in play with each other, kissing, touching each other's breasts and pussies. Does this mean we are bi or lez? We both actually liked it.
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faifai
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It means whatever you want it to mean to you. You could have been experimenting, or realized that your feelings and attraction for women are stronger/equal to what they are for men, or whatever. Sexuality isn't really neat and tidy and able to be put into little labeled groups.

However, there is nothing wrong with what you are doing. That you "actually liked it" is a bit of strange phrasing, as it seems like you did it with the expectation of not liking it. Just do what makes you feel comfortable, and be safe--you can still get STIs no matter what the gender is of your partner if you're not careful, so practice safer sex.


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Heather
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FYI?

"Girl-girl" the the terminology for two women being together in pornography for men, terminology invented just for that purpose. You really don't want to co-opt that term: this is your life, not a porn flick.


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Josie16
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Actually I didn't know what to expect, but I guess I was apprehensive.
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Josie16
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I guess I got the 'girl=girl' phraseology from listening to my older brother.
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lotesseflower
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It doesn't necessarily mean anything. Sometimes we mess around with things that we end up not choosing as a lifestyle. But sometimes when we mess around with things we find out that we do want to continue with them as a lifestyle.

Is your attraction to just this one girl, or to others as well?

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