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So last night i had sex, and i think i might have gotten ripped or something down there because when i wiped myself after i peed i was bleeding, not alot, it was just kind of a light pinkish colour. i've had sex before, and this has never happened, not even after the first time i had sex did i bleed, so i was just wondering what it was? i'm pretty sure my hymen broke a looong time ago when i started my period and started using tampons. is it possible to rip during sex? and another thing is, the guy was having trouble staying erect. he was on all these pills because he got his wisdom teeth out 4 days ago so he was taking tylonol 3's, anti inflamitories, and anti biotics, and both of us were wondering if that might have caused him to not be able to stay erect for that long, after 5-10 minutes he'd be flacid. could it have been the meds? he's usually not like that... Thanks!
oh and i dont know if this matters or not but he was wearing a condom and i'm on the pill
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Having recently had my wisdom teeth removed, I can not imagine why anyone would be engaging in intercourse four days post op. Laying down was painful enough, and I had no complications. So I'd recommend your partner let himself heal a bit more before engaging in intercourse. In addition, anti-inflamitories work by thinning the blood. This is not condusive to maintaining an erection.
As for you, yes, it's possible to experience small tears in the vaginal canal. This usually occurs when you are not fully aroused. This can be solved by using extra lube, like Astroglide, Silk, or even KY.
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I know, I had my wisdom teeth removed 2 weeks ago, but I was never swollen or bruised and neither is he and he said it wasn't that painful for him. As for the arousel, I was pretty sure I was quite wet, but maybe I was wrong. He was also wearing a lubricated condom, so there was a little bit of extra lub if I wasn't producing enough.
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The thing is often, what they include on the condom itself isn't enough. You can't ever have too much lube, really. But you can have too little.
Is it still bleeding any? If it is, you might want to get it checked out by a doctor.
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Its just the TINIEST bit of pinky colourish, alot lighter then it was this morning and last night i'm thinking about getting out a mirror and having alook haha,just to see if i can see anything, i have a feeling there might be a small tear because its stings a tiny bit when i pee
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quote:Originally posted by jillybilly: So last night i had sex, and i think i might have gotten ripped or something down there because when i wiped myself after i peed i was bleeding, not alot, it was just kind of a light pinkish colour. i've had sex before, and this has never happened, not even after the first time i had sex did i bleed, so i was just wondering what it was? i'm pretty sure my hymen broke a looong time ago when i started my period and started using tampons. is it possible to rip during sex? and another thing is, the guy was having trouble staying erect. he was on all these pills because he got his wisdom teeth out 4 days ago so he was taking tylonol 3's, anti inflamitories, and anti biotics, and both of us were wondering if that might have caused him to not be able to stay erect for that long, after 5-10 minutes he'd be flacid. could it have been the meds? he's usually not like that... Thanks!
oh and i dont know if this matters or not but he was wearing a condom and i'm on the pill
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As an additional to the meds + erection equation, I was with a partner who was on anti-nausea medication whilst being treated for a stomach bug, and though he was fine, happy and wanted to go for it, he couldn't maintain an erection either. A quick check on the side of the bottle said it caused muscle weakness. Go figure.
Medication generally isn't going to do wonders in the bed department, methinks.
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